Kizz & Tell is a combination of item #17 on my Life List (Develop an erotic fiction web site) and a continuation of the G-spot column I used to write at The Women's Colony. From fantasies to frank discussion I'm just trying to re-create a really great conversation with your friends. I hope you'll join in!
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
We Have A Question!
A Devoted Reader commented yesterday, "I need help asap! I am going away with someone in a couple of days and he asked me to "surprise" him. I mean, I know all the tricks of the "typical trade" but what could I do that would be surprising? Any tips?"
This is a toughie because we don't know what this couple has done together yet. My first instinct is to say that, if there is something you've done before, something you've loved doing that you haven't done with this particular partner then now is the time to bring that tool out of the box.
So to speak.
I think that when someone asks to be surprised it's a good bet they're asking for a chance not to be the one who initiates. As last Friday's fiction might imply I think a nice, low key way to bring variety to the table (or the rug or the bathroom sink or anywhere else) is with a blindfold. You can use anything for that, even just turning out the lights. It gives the blindfolded person permission to enjoy receiving attention and even things they've felt before can feel different and heightened because s/he doesn't know what's coming next. If you're going away for more than one night each partner could have their own night to receive which can be pretty luxurious.
I thought of a few other possibilities but I like the blindfold one best. Let's see what other commenters have to offer up and if none of those are really shining your shoes then ring in and I'll throw out a couple more.