I try to always be upfront with you so lets be clear, I haven't read 50 Shades of Grey. My To Read pile is already out of control. People whose opinions I value have read the book or parts of it and said that it's not terribly well written. People whose blogs and tweets I follow who are core members of the domination and submission communities have had some problems with the way they've been portrayed. Now, I'm not judging anyone who reads stuff that's well written. I read and watch a lot of crap. More even than I ought I'm sure, however, I decided that it was ok not to read this particular stuff if it was going to mirror my experience wading through Twilight. Despite taking it off my list I had great plans to write a whole Alternatives to 50 Shades of Grey post but, as you can see, it hasn't materialized.
This evening I swung by a friend's house briefly. She's moving and has been sweating to the tune of her own packing all day. Before I left I pawed through the books in her giveaway pile. I moved one book back and forth about three times before I stopped myself. It was Our Bodies, Ourselves and I don't own a copy. I thought, "I write about bodies and sex. I need a copy of this book."
Well, you can't say that if you don't actually write about bodies and sex. That was enough to inspire me to get my ass (and my fingers and my brain) back here. As I strolled home with my bodily instruction manual clutched to my modest chest I mulled over how I should begin my Alternatives post. About halfway there I realized that I've written more than one post on the subject already. Why am I trying to reinvent the wheel? Let me do a round up of those posts below so we can share them with anyone who might be interested. One of my favorite parts of this site and the G-Spot column before it is the conversations. The one fantastic thing about 50 Shades is that it's upping the odds of people talking about sex and desire and pleasure. I've got my fingers crossed that we'll all have more opportunities to share (and read) these gems.
My tardy review of the anthology Bitten. Not just BDSM but plenty of that if you need it.
I don't think any of our readers would call Speak pornography but here's my post about the people who do.
Another round up, this one of all the ways you can enjoy the work of Susie Bright.
On the non-fiction shelf we've got Bonk, Mary Roach's exploration of sex in our society.
The only thing I've been recommending to people who like 50 Shades that I haven't mentioned here is Anne Rice's Beauty series. It's been around a long time so many of you may know it. It's very specifically BDSM. I've got the first one and re-read parts of it often but haven't gone on to the rest. I think I'll have to add those to my very tall To Read pile.
I'll see you soon with another of the posts I've been procrastinating on. Let's keep the conversation rolling!
Yay! So glad to see a Tell Kizz post! Hope to see more in the near future. I miss this.ReplyDelete
Glad to be back! Thanks for reading.ReplyDelete
Oh, I've missed Tell Kizz and the G-Spot too. Friends are reading 50 Shades of Meh and I tell them, there is better stuff out there and give them basically the same list.ReplyDelete
i read 50 shades of awful. i tried SO, SO hard to understand. found myself skipping the boring parts...then i realized i was skipping *everything* because the entirety of it was boring.
i'd like to add the Kushiel's Legacy series to your list of books. it's one of my recent favorites.